Fuuuh..

After neglecting my blog for almost one month, actually lotsa things happened during that time..

Just like bought nonrefundable wrong tickets to Singapore (anjrit..!!), or passed my proposal presentation outstandingly (too excessive, i think,^0^), got injured on my chin, etc..

Most of all, i just live my life ordinarily..

I did my job like usual; writing articles, taking pictures, talking to so much peoples, without forget to get refreshed by my leisure’s activities..

And actually that’s the point, why i’m writing this post..

The beginning was, when i all alone in my house, and tried to find something to do..

Until i found “gogirl!” magazine in edition of 2008 October, and then read it..

Okay, okay, i know that it is a girls’ magazine, and please let me make it clear, that was my sister’s, and i just found and read it.. ^0^

One highlight in that magazine was “BEWARE of Mr. Womanizer“..

Reflected by it’s title, this article addressed to girls for avoiding the “Womanizer” guys..

It was an article, that focus about boys, and eventually talking about “Mr. Womanizer”..

There were several pointers, guide’s pointer to recognize a “Womanizer” nearby - called by me -:

1.A Perfect Prince Charming

(someone that good looking, with charisma, has a good attitude and well-behaved especially when dealing with girl, has a good taste of fashion, take a good care on his body, and the other blablablabla..)

2.A Smooth Talker

(someone with tons of topics, and also can delivers such a great and smooth conversation, make girls feel comfortable with the conversation..)

3.A Gentleman Wannabe

(to be a nice gentleman, boys usually have a good personality, well-behaved and attitude.. it was said that “he knows how to make girls feel comfortable.. he’s so polite and tends to treat us like a lady”.. tender voice when talking, acting sweet and not clumsy..)

4.A Remarkable Seducer

(a flirting expert..)

5.Oh So Romantic

(a romantic guy..)

6.He Won’t Take No for an Answer

(will do anything..)

7.A Potential Heart Breaker

(he can attract girls to come around, and make those girls want to be his girlfriend, until he refuse it.. because he don’t want to.. )

8.Commitment-Phobic

(avoid commitment.. always happy with his status as a bachelor, a good looking bachelor..)

I want you to look over some lines with underline..

Based on my own observation (hahahahaha), i do those things..

I’ve discussed this with some gals, and they agreed with me that i’m doing like that..

Now, let we analyze it..

It said that, if a boy do those things, that boy has characteristics to be a “Mr. Womanizer”..

And since i do those things (underlined ones), so i have characteristic to be “Mr. Womanizer” too..

In fact, i do those things just because i want to be good and kind, not else..

Apparently, i disagree with that article..

Because BOYS CAN’T BE GENERALIZED..!!

I do those things because that’s my human nature..

And i do those things because want to be good and kind..

Believe it or not..!!!!

Do i have to feel guilty just because i’m trying to be good and kind..??

Eventhough, some of friends said that i’ve made some peoples dissapointed..

I don’t know much..

If you don’t mind, please tell me more about this..♥

The article